care in a box

in the past couple weeks, i've gotten quite a few cardboard surprises in the mail - fun and exciting! there's nothing quite like receiving physical mail, whether a package or a letter. my mom has been one of the most notable to send packages, mostly food shipped overnight. yes, this is possible if you use ice packs (in the form of frozen chinese soups)! it makes my friends jealous...and yes, i'm spoiled, but in a good way :) it's one of the most tangible ways my mom shows she cares, and she sends me cute emails ahead of time letting me know the contents of the box and that the rest of the space is filled with love :D

i also got another package of awesomeness from joy, a prospective student who stayed w/ me during the open house. although she won't be coming to mit, she insisted on sending something as a thank you. i wasn't sure what it would be...but, as a knowing fellow architect, she sent the best thing possible: snacks, and healthy ones at that. very good judgment!

and while i'm at it, thanks to alice and megs, who also sent me things last semester - my studio mates enjoyed alice's cookies, while i've enjoyed the tie-dyed shirts megs, ay and i made before i came to school.

anyways...just the little connections to the outside world that sustain you in tough times. pressing on...

sweet soul music

with one week until our final studio review, stress is running high and freak out moments are becoming more frequent. so after yesterday's penultimate review, what do i do? i take the natural course of action.

i went to a concert on a school night.

most of my friends thought i was crazy when i asked them to come with me, but hey, it's not everyday that one of your friends from college comes up to the area to perform after releasing a new album. this is blair bodine, fellow proud ambler native, and if you haven't heard of her, you should check out her website or myspace page.

it's been a while since i've seen her - probably since college, actually - but through mutual friends and snippets of conversation i've at least been aware of what's been going on. she performed with the ny songwriter's circle at johnny d's in davis square, a restaurant/bar venue with live music. so, for a mere $10, i got to hear five great performers (all guitarists), catch up briefly w/ a friend, and relax. and have chocolate chip bread pudding. i can't argue with that.

the night was a lot of fun and reminded me of how great live music - especially acoustic - can be. the format of the night was a sort of round robin, where the 5 songwriters each played a song one after the other and repeated this in 3 rounds. some of the songs were hilarious, others more soulful. i don't have clips from the actual performances, but here are a couple below from blair and another guy, john schmitt. i also really liked zach hurd, who you can find on myspace.

and...family live!

check out my brother and jenny's recent video update on their life in the uk!

http://abeandjenny.blogspot.com/

they called me on sunday just to say hi and check in, which made my day :) so good to hear their voices...especially now that school is a whirlwind (maybe too tame - a tornado?) between now and the end of the semester.

my mom also just sent me a package with food. i love family!

the dalai lama speaks

my extremely blurry cell pictures of the video projection of the dalai lama...
how removed from the real person indeed

today presented a quintessential example of just how removed we architecture students can be from life in the mit community. four of us were eating lunch in front of the student center and noticed the unusual bustle around campus. what was going on? why were throngs of people lined up by a large tent outside of kresge auditorium? and why did we see groups of women wearing some sort of ethnic dress?

the answer? the dalai lama was on campus.

!!! how did we not know?? apparently mit just established the dalai lama center for ethics and transformative values, and he was here for the dedication. it's sad this news almost sailed right over our studio bubble. one of our instructors even wondered why we were sitting around working rather than heading over to the lecture, and this was one of the first times she has ever encouraged us to do something other than studio. we weren't able to pry everyone away from their desks, but some of us went to one of the overflow rooms to see his holiness via video projection. you needed tickets, distributed by lottery, to get into kresge to watch it live, but the screen was as good as anything to hear a bit from the 14th dalai lama.

his talk was mostly about the importance of establishing secular ethics, outside of religion, in practicing leadership and compassion in today's world. from his stance, since much of the world are "non-believers" (his word), then it's necessary to find a non-religious way to promote ethics and values. i'm not sure what he was giving as a basis for these ethics and values (still vague), but it seems like he wants to promote this compassion-centered model for leadership in the future, and a place like mit would allow for education, science, and ethics to come together. how will buddhist beliefs and the scientific method exist together? i guess we'll see?

in general, the speech was of the visionary and uplifting type, sprinkled with jokes, youthful laughter, and the occasional pointed barb (mostly aimed at the chinese government). i was surprised that he had such a lighthearted and humorous demeanor. every time he laughed, we looked at each other and couldn't help but laugh along, sort of like when a grandfather - or baby - starts chortling.

oh, and in the middle of the speech, he took out a red visor and put it on (top photo). somehow that reminded me of those chinese tour groups, when they all wear matching visors/hats and follow the guide holding a flag. and at the end of the q+a session, when the last woman was asking her question, he started slowly pulling up his socks and putting on his shoes. maybe it might be sacreligious for me to say this, but those little gestures made me smile and think what a cute old man he is - in the most respectful way, of course.

anyways, i've been curious about the dalai lama, since he's one of the few religious leaders who has been so widely and favorable regarded by much of the world. some of his appeal seems to transcend his role as a buddhist leader, instead focusing on his role as an advocator for peace. one of my friends and i talked a bit about whether the pope or another religious leader would get the same all-embracing reception that the dalai lama did. i'm actually not so sure. i can't quite explain the dalai lama's widespread appeal, although when seeing him i did find him to be an engaging and endearing character. i don't agree with everything he talked about, since i find it hard to separate ethics from its source in faith (then what becomes the standard? our flawed selves?), but he has done very much in promoting peace and general positive values, and at least i can agree with that.

so very interesting - glad we opened our eyes to look beyond our computers today :)

_currently: listening to regina spekter, reading a cook's way - anthony bourdain (for fun!), waiting to regain her life back after 2 weeks are over
_feeling: sleepy - as always